Hello and welcome to the JT_variety Family.
Firstly I have to Thank God for being Faithful to Me, I didn’t know I will be here and write again.
Omg, where do I start, well it has been a while since I posted or write anything here. Secondly, I will like to apologise to all our faithful Family and friends, that follow and support us and thank you for being here still, this means a whole lot.
To be quite honest, I’m so happy to be here again and write . Oh, mama, I want to write, I have a lot to share with you, and I think I learned the hard way and I become stronger. one of the lessons I learned is Not to give up on yourself because you are the only person that you look up to. If you don’t pick yourself up, no one else will do, even if they’re willing to help you if you are not ready to help yourself, no one else will do that for you But You.
I also learn that don’t forget yourself while looking after Others. If you’re not Well, you cannot help anyone to be well. It’s starts within.
And also don’t forget to love yourself while loving either because that’s the biggest mistake we make Loving others or expecting Others to adore us more than we adore ourselves or wanting others to make us happy while we can be happy on our own.
This is might sound simple to you, or something you had before but believes me, take a deep breath and read over and over again, this might help you understand things better!
One thing that I released is giving up on things you cherish the most is like losing yourself. Life happened but we should also keep going. No matter how hard it is.
These are a few points I want to pull out and make you comprehend
It all started with COVID-19, so I lost lots of my family members due to this virus and to make it worst I lost my Sister 💔 who was my best friend, she was my Everything, we were so close and shared everything and talk every second of the day and that to be taken away from me was a nightmare and still it is. This is so hard to talk about it but I have to face my Fears. She was my favourite person and always will be. And I will also share more stories about her in Our Blog in Her memories And Hopes it’s helped Someone else out there
Life keeps happening one thing after the other until I shut down. I didn’t have enough time to grieve I had to step up and get things moving forward. I swear I wasn’t Ready but I had to.
So I discovered the hard way, need to roll On like it or not.
One thing that I carried out is Writing 📝 I was writing everything I was feeling or Wanted to share with anyone I just write it down in my own experience way/ words.
Every feeling, emotion, anger or frustration whatever you can think of when you are in that situation. I just write it down, and soon I hope I will pick some share here too. This a reason why I called this Mama I just want to write 🖋️ because writing has indeed Safe ME.
Some Tips I learned!
I learned a lot about myself Good and Bad but in all this
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart 💔
1. Give yourself permission to grieve.
2. Take care of yourself.
3. Lead the way in letting people know what you need.
4. Write down what you need (aka the ‘notecard method’)
5. Go outdoors.
6. Read self-help books and listen to podcasts.
7. Try a feel-good activity.
8. Seek professional help.
Stay tuned as I’m going to share with you which of those I try and works. And I already know you guys figure out which one I practice More.
I realized a lot about myself Good and bad. But one thing that stood out is that the best way to share my feelings or communicate is when I write 📝 them down. I guess that is what I will keep on doing. About me 👉🏽 What I do.
I am okay now, doing so much better emotionally and mentally. Because I didn’t give up and this doesn’t mean it’s the end of life challenges but it means learning to live with difficult situations.
I thank God I am back to do what I cherish and sharing my story in Hope to help someone else who is going through a hard time. Because this is what I do inspire, motivate and encourage others.
To be a reason someone smiles 😊 and sees that there is hope. See our previous inspirational post here 👉🏽 Positive Changes
I am so grateful and feel blessed 🙏🏽♡
My Prayer 🛐 For all of you and everything going on in the World now!
You are the light of the world.
Because of You, I no longer walk in darkness but in Your light. May my life reflect Your truth, pointing others to You and bringing glory to Your name.
Give me the strength and courage to share the hope that I have in You.
This world is broken, but You make what’s broken whole again.
This year, draw near to the lost, the lonely, and the hurting. And, please draw near to me.
May Your love bring us together, mending division and unifying Your global Church.
No matter what this year holds, You are faithful and Your promises are true.
Thank You for the eternal hope that I have in You.
In Jesus’ name,
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Cheers stay Blessed 🙏🏽